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LU -“1. Anyone means all people – that means it is a reflection on the Internet and not the specific people.”

Not at all! It’s a reflection on everyone.

This includes Frum Yidden, in spite of your denial!

“In terms of the fact that Internet causes exposure to bad things, the reason you disagree may be because you have a different interpretation than I do as to what “negative things” are. I am referring to ANYTHING that it is better for a Yid not to see if it can be avoided.

For a man in particular, any picture of anyone who is not dressed according to halacha is something that he is supposed to avoid seeing if possible.”

With filtering – you can avoid all pictures – if you so prefer!

“Reading anything that is written by someone who does not have Torahidk hashkafos is a negative thing (I’m not saying that you can’t learn something from it, but it definitely has a negative aspect – you are exposing yourself to non-Torahdik hashkafos and it is better not to be if one can avoid it. It is certainly better for a person’s Ruchnius to be immersed in Torah all day if he can be.)”

Who says? You can learn many things, like medicine, and there is no negativity, even if written by Goyim!

Also, Chazal say Torah without Derech Eretz won’t be able to continue.

(There are exceptions.) But according to you Chazal should have never said such a statement!

“I know that using Internet usually exposes people to bad things because I know this from my experience, and from the experience of friends who were trying to avoid such things.”

So you’re basing your opinions’ about e/o because of a few of your friends?!?

“Regarding filters, many people who work are not able to use good filters for their jobs. That is why my friends ended up seeing things they didn’t want to see.”

So the solution to that – is only to take a job where they have good filters, eg. in a Frum company!