Dunno, it is one thing for a guy to envision what is attractive to him. It is quite another when his mother is so overbearing that she censors all the shidduch profiles, and makes unilateral decisions about which girl is pretty enough for her son, and THEN allows the shidduch to be made. I know people who do that, and it makes me ill. And the values that this type of activity imparts, are inconsistent with a Torah life.
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