Reply To: At what age should someone purchase a burial plot?

Thanks for your replies.

I still don’t understand, though.

Does the merit of being buried in E’Y supersede in importance the merit of having tefilos recited at one’s kever (for the niftar)(acharei meah v’esrim shana)?

Does the impact on family and our need to daven at a loved one’s kever supersede the merit of burial in E’Y? Meaning, is meeting the needs of the surviving family and having tefilos recited at one’s kever more valuable than being buried in E’Y from a Torah perspective?

Sorry if I missed the response. I’m just not clear still.