Lenny1970 -“I’m not doing the individual until “real” marriage counseling starts. I know some may say why not do individual. For me, it would be a waste of $150/hr.”
I’m divorced and the other posters don’t know what they’re talking about.
Don’t be an Ackstion – go for therapy first and ask her to go for her own therapy. Then you can both go for marital therapy.
“Heath, yourself and others have said a beis din won’t order me to write a get. That’s what I find most puzzling. If this is indeed the case, and it’s also what our sheila rabbi said, then why is she threatening me with this action?”
She doesn’t know what Bais Din will do, and she needs to be pushed into therapy!