Lenny, you had originally written as follows: “Counselor wants me in individual counseling; so maybe I have problems I’m not aware of”
It sounds like he does think that you need individual therapy. And in any case, wouldn’t it make more sense to ask him what to do than to ask the anonymous posters here? You obviously need help figuring out what to do with this situation – wouldn’t he be the best person to ask? (and/or any of the Rabbanim you’ve been discussing this with)