Reply To: what does "Get refusal" mean?

Lilmod, actually, the counselor said both of us need individual counseling + marriage counseling. I’m not doing the individual until “real” marriage counseling starts. I know some may say why not do individual. For me, it would be a waste of $150/hr. I’m relatively productive in all other aspects of life. To my knowledge, he didn’t find anything wrong with me, e.g., an explosive temper or inability to get along w/ others, etc… nothing like that.