Reply To: what does "Get refusal" mean?

So basically, this is the situation as I understand it. You asked for advice. Everyone here agrees that you should speak to a Rav. Everyone agreed that Rav Simcha Bunim Cohen is a reliable Rav and you should listen to what he says. Now, if I understand correctly, you have decided that instead of asking a sheilah, you are just going to do what you want to do and find someone who will help you to do it.