Reply To: what does "Get refusal" mean?

Lilmod, u do realize our Rabbi (mine & my wifes) said he didn’t know what we should do. He told us to speak to the Lakewood Rabbi for a shaila. The shaila Rabbi was all about what’s easiest… just give her a Get if that’s what she wants. The shaila Rabbi said all the halachic grounds for denying the Get are irrelevant because I’ll just be miserable. You are correct that no Rebbeim are lining up & tellign me to hold off on the Get. But aside from the Shaila Rabbi, the Rebbeim aren’t exaclty lined up & urging me to give a Get either. My wife & I are meeting later this week w/ a $150/hr marriage therapist in Lakewood. The therapist is also a Rabbi & had a bunch of kids in the background. So he seems legite. G-d willing this counselor will provide sound guidance. (Rav Simcha Bunim Cohen never got back.) Thanks.