DY,
Maybe he was discouraged when writing that post and sounded like he was ready to throw in the towel. Does that imply that the marriage is really not salvageable through mutual therapy? And maybe you and other posters are being cruel to both Lenny, (his wife), and children by discouraging all of them from hope, rather than Lenny being cruel to his wife?
Limud,
I guess for the most part we are in agreement.