This is a sheilah for a Rav. That is what I was referring to on the other thread when I said that you should be listening to the Rav and not anonymous posters.
I was referring to the Rav of the Beis Din who seemed to be telling you that you should give your wife a Get if she insists on one and you quoted anonymous posters instead of listening to him (as I understood things. perhaps, I misunderstood what you meant. in that case, I apologize).
Then I thought it was irrelevant since I thought that you were going to Rav Simcha Bunim. I hope for the sake of your wife’s olam hazeh (this world) and your olam haba (world-to-come) that you do go to speak to Rav Simcha Bunim and that you do listen to what he says to do (whether it’s marriage therapy or granting a Get).
Btw, he’s a grandson of Rav Avigdor Miller (and I think a follower of his), whom Joseph kept quoting as being against divorce. So if that’s true and there is no good reason for a divorce, he won’t tell you to divorce your wife.
In any case, he is a wise Talmid Chacham, and if you do to him (or someone else), you should go in with an open-mind, prepared to accept what he tells you.