Reply To: Dating with a divorced guy – when should I ask about his divorce?

I think a fourth date is way too early to be meeting his kids, nor is it fair to the kids to be meeting someone until it is a sure thing that she is going to marry their father. While the kids will be a big part of his life, they should not be involved in his decision to remarry or whom to date. No matter who it is, or how much they might like her, it will be hard for them to accept a new step-mother; you should not base your decision on whether to continue dating him or marrying him on their reaction, but whether you can handle a long-term challenge, because it will be.