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Abba_S
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I would start by asking him about his relationship with his kids. Once he starts talking about them eventually the ex-wife who has custody of them will come up. You have to realize that as long as she has custody of his children there will be a relationship with her and he will be going over there. You need to know how much is his alimony and child support because most of his income will be going toward that and you may end up supporting him. As to what caused the divorce he will blame it on her and the ex will blame it on him and the truth maybe some where in between.