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lilmod ulelamaid: Isn’t that a tremendous Chilul Hashem, that she is walking around blatantly disobeying an explicit halacha in the Shulchan Aruch for all to see?
Actually, there’s no tznius section of the Shuchan Aruch – rather,
the requirements of tznius are derived from the halachos about
not saying divrei kedusha in the presence of ervah.
Abba_S: Likewise someone who works has a lot to lose in a divorce and so is less likely to divorce and if there is one will give a get in fear of financial penalties, while a learner has no incentive to stay in the marriage or give a get as it’s all his wife’s money.
A. Do we now choose who to marry based on how hard it would be to get a divorce out of them, and/or how statistically likely they are, given their potential finances, to divorce you?
B. Wouldn’t he want to keep that money?
C. To get remarried (for more money?), he’d need to give a get.)
D. Divorce is not known as a positive experience.
Is that not incentive enough?