I meant any type of relationship, like friendships and relationships with family.
My best friend growing up was abusive at times. I never even told my mother about how she treated me because I didn’t know that I didn’t have to be her friend.
That pattern likely started at home, influencing outside relationships/friendships.
Once I started dating, I tolerated way too much for too long. Retrospectively, t would have been great if someone explained to me that a healthy friend doesn’t get angry and yell at you when she’s in a bad mood. A healthy friend doesn’t put you down or get jealous and behave possessively if you have and want to spend time with other friends.
It starts with the most basic relationships. The neighbor down the street who goes to school with you. Your peers. Parents. Teachers.
Having a healthy model from the start can prevent abuse.