“And actually she DID ask the men, this site (contrary to popular opinion), is frequented by both sides of the mechitza. One side generally suffices with one tenth .. due to a gemarah somewhere)”
Well since I am usually the one who answers LB’s questions… and the one who is usually interested in the Halacha questions (as opposed to all the annoying politics threads)… and the one whom everyone thought was a guy and would think so still if I hadn’t disillusioned them. (ok, so, I guess I anyhow gave up the charade when I let my sensitivity show)
Anyhow, thanks for answering, LF, MK, & MA!