Reply To: obtain a beis din's preliminary ruling without actually going to a beis din

And just a quick status, after the holidays, we’re meeting with the Rabbi from the Beis Din in Lakewood for a shaila. The Rabbi we’re going to meet with is highly recommended by our Rabbi. We want to get clarification on whether the Beis Din would order me to give my wife a Get given our circumstances, how can you make a spouse stay in a marriage he/she doesn’t want to stay in, etc… Thanks again for all the insights & Good Yom Tov

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