Joseph, so maybe it’s the first thing I wrote them – that the Rabbanim convince the guy to give the Get.
I’m not disputing you on the halachos you quoted, since I never studied the topic. But my point is that even if what you are saying is true, there is obviously more to it than that. From reading your posts, one could get the incorrect and very negative impression that Jewish women are held captive in bad marriages, which is very far from the truth, since there are very few agunos. Most people who want to get divorced are able to do so, and the Rabbanim do not tell people that personality conflicts are not grounds for divorce.