Reply To: Apologizing: It's wonderful

Thanks adorable, and you are so right about the tone of voice thing! And it’s not really a rule, more just a sensitivity thing. And I’m sure your spouse has it, if he’s lucky enough to be marrying someone as great as you.

always runs, thanks, and oy, I am so so sorry that my post caused you to feel down!! Please, please forgive me!! And I’m sure your husband has many many other wonderful qualities that you love about him. No one has everything good. Everyone has things they can work on. So all I can say is that we should try to focus on the positive traits of our friends and family, and perhaps once in a while to show them or hint to them, politely and privately, areas that they can work on, without making them feel bad.