Health – I didn’t realize that being picky = not settling for stam a guy! In that case, everyone I know is picky, Boruch Hashem (and normal too!).
Actually, you’re wrong about its being a chiyuv for women to get married as I have already pointed out to you. But I am not going to argue with you about it, since I know from experience that there is no point in getting into an argument with you regarding halacha, since you are nowhere near being my “bar plugta” when it comes to halacha. That is true of most people since most people do not have my background in halacha, but the problem with you is that you won’t admit it when you are unable to understand something even after I have explained it to you many times so there is no point in continuing this discussion.