Francorachel3: I don’t know the situation. Still maybe this woman is frustrated that her husband is seen and treated like an angel when she knows a different man at home. It doesn’t mean that she can speak lashon hara, but maybe she just wants someone to validate her experience and realize that she’s not the bad guy in this situation.
Also, who knows. Maybe her husband has black-mailed her and/or the get would severely compromise her livelihood.
Again, I don’t know, and am trying to judge her with a favorable eye.