Lightbrite: “A date is an experience you have with another person that makes you appreciate being alone.” lol. I think you are glorifying the single lifestyle. Is this lifestyle in accordance with the Torah,? When Hashem created Adam realized that Adam needed a helpmate. If Adam who was a first edition and the best human created and even so Hashem realized he needed a helpmate. You who are probably a trillionth edition, why do you think that you don’t need a spouse (helpmate). Also when Hashem is referring to Adam not being alone Hashem is referring to humankind as he was the only human alive at the time.
Perhaps you alone were chosen by Hashem to give birth to the Mashiach and you are delaying the redemption by delaying getting married.
I am not trying to offend you or anyone else but I am against the single lifestyle. I hope Hashem somehow (even not through a date) helps you find your true love and get married even if you don’t give birth to the Mashiach, I still think it’s worth it.