Just because I pointed out a likely possibility does not make me a charedi basher. You can disagree with me, and point out where you think I’ve gone wrong. But resorting to ad homeinum attacks does nothing for your side of the argument.
Her children are witnessing the ugly truth about yiddishkeit and how it deals with independant thinkers and their siblings. Some will double down and feel that much more of a commitment to their relationship with Hashem. And others will see it for what it is and make their life choices accordingly.