aries2756 – I’m sorry if you thought I was implying that you recommended they should do so. I thought I was clearer. Though they may be asked to write a letter from their hearts expressing the pain they have been put through, some people are likely to just spew hatred to any frum person in their wake. Not cuz they were asked to, just because that is all they have the strength/self awareness for.
WOW – Hashem should give you strength. And Baruch Hashem your husband is being joined with you in this mission. Hatzlacha.