WD, it saddens me that you would find a need to make negative comments on this thread. This thread, from the get go has basically been a conversation between one poster who asked for help, and those who have offered assistance. Why you felt the need to comment on the general issue just to throw your hat in the ring when this entire thread has nothing to do with the debate on the issue is questionable. Was it your intent to pour salt on an already open wound?
Did you not bother to read any part of this thread, the history between the parents and child? What exactly is the point of your very sound advice here aside from letting us all know you are sick of this topic? You did have the choice of skipping it if you are tired of the subject, you did not have to get involved at all.