Reply To: Going off the Derech

mom12-Even though it’s better and probably more effective if both parents adopt the same approach, I’m sure your son would benefit even if only you were to do some of these things. I know that according to TP, both parents have to be in sync with this, the truth is, that it is very difficult to do, even if highly motivated. At least, you’d be healing your relationship with your son and providing a window for him to ‘return’. Then, as your husband would see how your son’s relationship with you is so much better, he might be more receptive to making similar changes.