WOW, HTH and I are coming from different perspectives. I have never sat in on these sessions with Avi, but I do respect him. HTH believes that you should not be getting advice from two different sources and that you should try this program with full commitment and concentration without any distraction from me and see if it works for you.
In all honesty I will tell you to do whatever you think will work for you and your child. I promise you that even though you can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel parents do survive the parsha and come out on the other side. I don’t know how you would get hold of HTH but I can tell you that you can google Avi Fishoff to find his number, google Twisted Parenting, or Home Sweet Home and somehow you will get to him. Let us know what you choose to do because I don’t normally comed to the coffee room anymore. However if you need be to check in here I will.