w.o.w. locking him out goes against every rule in the book and will show him nothing but that you are not accepting him. which is exactly the opposite of what we are trying to accomplish. he is going to do whatever he wants anyway, fighting him will only make him fight back. Remember, no negativity, no control. I realize I am only telling you what NOT to do. B’N after Shabbos I will try to give you some practical advice as to what you SHOULD do. I know it’s late but if you have something you can give him for Shabbos like a favorite food of his, give it to him with a note that you will miss him but that he should enjoy.
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