Reply To: Going off the Derech

mom12-you cannot imagine how many additional things my husband and I took on to help improve the situation. But I never tried to do anything more in tsnius. Like you, I also wear longer skirts, and high neckline etc. The cellphone would be hard for me to do, bc my kids call me constantly and I would always want them to be able to reach me. But I will think more about it. Someone gave me an article a while back, I forgot from which magazine, that talked about a woman who couldn’t have children for many years. She was told that a segula for having children, or for people who want to ensure righteous kids, one should read Tefillas Hanna after lighting Shabbos candles. For the woman in the article, she ended up having a child.

How do you resolve the differences between you and your husband? Did he become more accepting bc of you, or do you just relate differently to your son? In the merit of your efforts, Hashem should answer your prayers!