I was talking to a friend and she told me about an article she read, also about a woman who was having issues in the family.
I cant remember the rav, I believe it was R’ Chaim K. that told her when a woman takes upon herself a chumra in znius the ‘krenk’ gets better.
After some thought and watching how ppl speak loudly on their cellphones this woman took upon herself not to speak on the fone on the street. I tried it too. It is NOT easy. I had to keep reminding myself what I took upon myself and to adhere to it.
it does not have to be about the phone.. but I wear longer skirts.. thicker sox.. machmir on my neckline.. I couldnt think of anything else. I am not upto covering my sheitel just yet..
I got to stick by what I take upon myself.. and not be upset with myself. Hopefully something will work with the situation in my home.
this child is not my only issue..
HASHEM YA’AZOR!