Reply To: Who wants to be a Tzadaikes like Rus?

moi aussi -“Health, Women are remaining spinsters, because men always want young women. They want it when they’re 20, and they still want it when they’re 60. You will argue that an old man seeks a young woman for procreation, that’s a good cover-up for their real intent. An old man has no patience for children, an old man wants a young woman to satisfy his physical urges (no’ef).”

By your emotional response – I can only deduce either you are an older single woman or you are very close to one.

I am trying to keep this topic based only on Halacha and logic. Your posts here are Neither!

There is a big difference between s/o whom has “physical urges” & a “No’ef”! (A person who is Mezaneh.) But somehow I think you know this!

If you are a single gal around 35 -40 y.o. – don’t be picky and consider marrying s/o between 55 -60 y.o. I’ll repeat from above -Women have a Chiyuv to get married. Chazal say you can’t be happy unless you’re married -“Shoroy B’lo Simcha”. (Doesn’t mean every married couple is happy!)

A lot of bitterness in life goes away after marriage!