Reply To: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not?

Joe, I thought about what I would do if there were no Yidden there:

1. I would ask a sheilah if possible.

2. If I had no one to ask and had to “posken” for myself, then, if I thought it would be a chillul Hashem otherwise, I would save children and women first (since halachically as far as I know, there is no difference by goyim)

But, I still want to know: what point are you trying to make?