Reply To: Ladies First – Is it respectful or not?

GAW: “Let me ask the question this way: When a girl walks in front of a Frum boy, is she doing something similar to what the lady in your hypothetical case is doing if she KNOWS that there are men who will be deliberately watching her?

No, she is doing something worse. By acting specifically in a manner that shows herself off IN PUBLIC, which even when the “ervas” are fully covered, she is Over Da’as Yehudis. If “she KNOWS that there are men who will be deliberately watching her” (AKA Histaklus) doing this act, because of that action, that would be “Vered” (IMHO).”

Sorry, my question was not phrased well and got misunderstood. I meant that the lady in your situation knows that someone is watching her.

It’s too complicated to reexplain the way I phrased it and what I meant. I rephrased it in my last post which was written before your last post “appeared” (which may not be your last post by the time this appears 🙂 ) My last post should have “appeared” by now, so see how I phrased the question there. It is much clearer I think.