Joseph, unless you tell me you know them or that you were there, your story is fiction. And to me, it doesn’t even make sense. Mothers aren’t dumb, they are just stretched thin. I think the made up, farfetched scenerios do more to hurt her than to help her. Why point out that you have to go out on a limb to come up with a limud zchus.
I don’t read the news, remember? I just have been a mom, surrounded by moms, intimately involved with moms for more than a quarter century. I would assume, respectfully, that your interactions with other mothers and awareness of how they think and work and is very, very limited and highly speculative.