its seems to me that she herself has many issues…she seems to be part of the croud suffering from mood swings…she was in that kind of a mood..but you have choice if you want to let her mood make you moody and pained…this is totaly your choice because only you and only you can take charge of your own feelings..and that goes for forgiving to …
dont let her be your tenant living in you with a painful grudge .just get rid of this tennant she is not paying rent for you…just giving you a headache so throw her out ..be freindly and nice feel happy of your attitude your power of control..and wait for great surprises ,,,hatzlucha