I think many are in kollel for just a year or two. They feel it’s important to start marriage that way to set the tone for a home where Torah is central, but aren’t in it long term. These are the ones who are often (not always) less dedicated and learn fewer hours.
I have quite a few family members in Kollel, they are not in it for a year or to. They are in it for the long haul
Trump, a BILLIONAIRE, openly brags about taking advantage of the system legally for his benefit. But I dont see you complaining about him, only poor kollel families. If they are putting pressure and guilt on individuals for support thats one thing, but dont feel bad for the system. Take your gripes to the politicians and law makers not the poor kollel families.
So L’Havel we should stoop to the level of trump? We are better than that