I’m sorry. I also didn’t think the Torah says ???? ????? ?? by Chava.
It’s clearly not a Jewish thing, because at some point in history (before Chava’s misstep) she was not subordinate to Adam.
Oh. The adage to Avaraham Avinu ?? ??? ???? ???? ??? ??? ?????, is not for husband to obey wife, but to listen to a Navi, for Avaraham was a tafal (inferior) to her regarding nevius. So says Medrash. I think.