Sparkly: “shopping 613 – can you see yourself married and pregnat and having so much responsibilities? like paying bills, doing laundry, cooking, but every day not allowed to stop?”
Many girls do those things for years before they are married, and if they are doing it already, they may as well do it in their own homes. For some girls who have a lot of responsibilities, marriage is a break because there are no kids to take care of for at least the first year.