I am not sure that a girl needs 1 outstanding quality. Wouldn’t a bunch of awesome qualities be better? Don’t get nuts about the dating. Here’s what our insecure brains do to us: we go on a date with a boy and we want them to love us to prove our worth to ourselves. When he doesn’t want to go out again, we are sure that even though he doesn’t know us from beans, and even though we didn’t like him either, he should have loved us anyway. We must be worthless. And the joke is that if we don’t want to go out again, we can rationally say that it is not about HIM at all, it is about the match. Go figure.
(If I make it sound ridiculous enough will it help us keep it in perspective?)