Reply To: Why people become OTD (with the focus on the "why")

many Chaddish women dont drive.

But I think you missed the point, there are things that are really takanas not Halachas and they do drive people away. We are not supposed to veer from the torah from the left or the right. People have no problem not veering to the left, but the veer to the right all the time and sometimes too much