Sam2 -“Health: I don’t understand your point in #1. All woman are equally Mufka from all Mitzvos Asei Shehazman G’rama.”
You’re right you don’t. No, All Mitzvos Asey Sh’hazman Groma are not equal when it comes to women. They aren’t Mufka from the whole Parsha, just they aren’t Mechuyav in them. Tzitzis is a Mitzva where there is a Drosha that they are Mufka from the Mitzva. To pick this Mitzva that the woman wants to keep of all others doesn’t point to a woman doing it L’shem Shomayim only that she is doing it for Feminism.
And this logic also applies to picking it even though some Shittos hold it’s Ossur for a woman to wear Tzitzis. Picking a Mitzva that some Shittos hold it’s Ossur for them to keep doesn’t point to a woman doing it L’shem Shomayim only that she is doing it for Feminism!