Some men are completely INCAPABLE of being the so-called boss, and being forced into that role, puts a great strain on the marriage. I know a couple, a bit younger than myself, where the wife really HAS to take charge, or nothing would ever get done by them. Her husband is a nice enough person, and we enjoy their company, but if she did not make the decisions, decisions would not be made. I personally do not know how their marriage has worked for over 25 years, but work, it does! The dynamic of their household ONLY works when she is in charge. BTW, I know her from before they were married, and she was never a bossy type back then. It evolved that way, because he is a mild person who does not have the desire to take that leadership role and is content for her to do as she wishes.
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