Did you ask your Rov whether you can judge all the frum women who do air out in the mall (of course powerwalking doesn’t fit into your idea that it’s against halacha even though it falls into the same category because walking can be done on a treadmill at home and getting fresh air and sunshine can be gotten by sitting out in the backyard or porch where nobody sees so its the same shaaloh as the mall, but that doesn’t bother you), and judge a woman who’s bored at home even though she didn’t give herself that nature?
When you come back with that answer then I’ll ask mine.
In any case, by suggesting that you miss my whole point regarding minhugim and daas yehadus.
I have not said anywhere that a wife can faif un a husband, so don’t make it seem like I did. Besides for minhugim in today’s day which wives automatically take on the husband’s, husbands and wives compromise some following their husban’s directive more and some less, but certainly not like they did in the Rambam’s times.
Unless, you maybe wash your husband’s feet, and wait on him and serve him all his wishes whenever he wants them. So maybe we’ll make one exception here.