Do you care to comment on 80’s point, that it says “will”, not should?
I did not realize it was a point. I thought it was merely a correction.
The same pasuk says she shall desire her husband. Do you feel its okay if she neglects that part of the pasuk?
No — but not because of the pasuk, but because it is obviously detrimental to the marriage.
And more importantly than all that, I’ve cited that the ruling is actual halacha and the Torah ideal, not just a curse.
And yet, you’ve said above it’s okay for me to “violate” halacha by insisting that it not be that way. Obviously it’s not really halacha then, is it?
The Wolf