Kasha,
Thanks for answering the question.
As far as the definition of feminism is concerned, it is synonymous with “women’s lib” (the women’s liberation movement.)
For you, perhaps, and maybe for others — but not for everyone (including myself). Perhaps your argument isn’t with “feminism” but with the “women’s lib movement” (something else that, more likely than not, also has a “fuzzy” definition).
The Wolf