Reply To: Pre-Martial advice (for choosanim and kallahs)

love, respect, and a constant appreciation for all the wonderful things your spouse signifies . support,stability ,management, and the ability to make you a better person. boys, remember that even though it sounds mushy, tell your wife that you love her, and show appreciation for all that she does. shoichad ( bribery) and chanifa is a mitzva in marriage.