Joseph,
I’d rather send my kids to a home with a TV that’s off where there is peace and respect than to one with no TV where there is acrimony and disrespect.
If your primary method for parenting is regulation it’s not going to work for very long. I have no problem with the Rambam and Mechaber but you still didn’t answer the question about how often you let your isha out. Do you also beat her with a stick if you feel she’s not accepting your regulations? I’m sure you’re well versed in that Rambam also. Why did the Rambam write it if we’re not supposed to do so nowadays?
Someone such as yourself who is always making blanket pronouncements and judgements on entire groups of people he never met must be on a very high madrega indeed. Please, share with us the hanhagos you use to guide your home, which you’ve learned from the Gedolim you are so close to.