Im not talking about the one leader of the community or gadol hador, but the mainstream.
I would feel uncomfortable going to a member of rov elyashiv’s shule for shabbos lunch who would view me and my kids not good enough to marry into the their family or the mainstream community.
I would rather go to another community for shabbos or eat at home. Baruch Hashem I live in a community I dont have that problem.