I never said I would rule out marrying a non FFB (such a restriction would probably leave someone in my shoes single forever). I said it is preferable for the reasons I mentioned in my first post. I don’t buy into the narrative that BTs and Gers should marry others of their kind. This leaves them a bit clueless when it comes to raising the kids.
I’ve seen the FFB-preferring crowd dragged through the mud on anonymous forums and I don’t think it’s fair. They have legitimate reasons.
I would not really limit myself in particular in shidduchim to answer the original post. However, I would feel a lot of guilt making a Sphardi girl give up her minhagim for mine especially since mine weren’t even passed down like her’s presumably would have been. Has anyone looked at it this way?