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April 30, 2009 5:22 pm at 5:22 pm
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SJSinNYC
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as for 18-20 year old girls having a more difficult time getting dates,as far as I’m concerned that’s all good. It means the 21-23 year olds are getting the dates!
So a young woman (lets say 18-20) who is mature and ready to get married should have trouble dating so someone else should get dates? That doesnt make sense to me.
I think everything you’ve been saying implies people are NOT marrying their bashert. Which I disagree with.
I am not sure if 2,000 women unmarried is a “crisis” – maybe not all women are meant to get married. Or maybe its time to reinstate polygamy. One wife to cook, clean and raise the kids plus one to work so the husband can learn.