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oomis, if you’re doing it so that you’ll be answered, i doubt it will “work.” i’m sure hashem can see through that.
It does not matter that you are doing it so you will be answered. You are still davening sincerely for the other person. The reward for that is that Hashem answers you first when you are in need of the same bracha. You think you can pull some spiritual wool kivyachol over G-d’s eyes???? NAH!
Ames, I loved your bracha.
Every time I hear of a friend’s child becoming a chosson or kallah, I am emesdig happy for them all. Y.es, I have two daughters who have not yet been zochos to meet their zivugim, but whether or not that happens soon (and I truly pray that it does), it does not take away from another person’s simcha. I daven for my friends’ daughters, and some have gotten married in the past year or two. I hope to see the same thing happen in my family, but I will never be unhappy to hear someone else is happy.